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Tune in as the guys kick around Gottman’s Four Horsemen of the Marriage Apocalypse. Watch Josh treat Jimmy with Contempt, Criticism, Stonewalling, and Defensiveness!
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The Four Horsemen:
Criticism - Complain about a person's behavior while attacking the person
Contempt - Overall vindictive and hateful attitude toward the person
Defensiveness - Self protection through righteous indignation or playing the victim
Stonewalling - Stop fighting and not seeking resolution
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Take a Seat on the Couch:
If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:
1. Shoulder some of the blame in every argument; find where you have fault.
2. Realize your spouse is not the enemy; he/she is on your same team.
3. Don't react, respond to your spouse's mistakes/sin.
4. If you'd like more help in this area, contact Jimmy and Josh at The Timothy Center. Just go to www.timothycenter.com.