Episode #58 - Hugging a Cactus
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Jimmy and Josh discuss inlaws on today’s show. Our families of origin can often times have too much control over our marriage, family and children. Listen in as the Pairadocs share insight dealing with inlaws that become outlaws.
Links to information discussed in the show:
Quotes from the Show:
The cactus is pushing you away from the very thing they need.
Ultimately we heal in relationships.
Create time to be in with them when it's purposefully not negative.
T - Time
R - Reduce Negativity
A - Act against type
I - Interest in your world
N - Not every moment is a teachable moment
Take a Seat on the Couch:
If this episode hits home for you. If you believe you and your family struggle with this particular area, read below for next steps for you and your family:
1. You must seek the cactus out, they will push you away at every turn.
2. You must make sure they feel loved by you before you can speak your truth to them.
3. Go out of your way to use the Five Love Languages with these folks, and change the way you view them. They aren't just an angry person, they are a hurting person.
4. If you'd like more assistance in this area, contact Jimmy, Josh or one of their licensed professionals at www.timothycenter.com.